Wow........... I know exactly how you feel. I do the same thing. You answered your question. You do it because
you don't have enough people you can talk to. So when you talk to someone , it all spills out. Then you later
regret sharing as much as you did. I have very few ,if anyone ,that I can really talk to . That's why we pay therapists
to listen to us babble on about all kinds of personal stuff. Even in just general conversations I say too much.
I'm surrounded by people who don't share *****. They somehow keep it inside and remain quiet. It always amazed
me how some people are like that. Your not a child and you don't " have to grow up ". And are you self sabotaging
yourself by being truthful ? Perhaps. That's the only part of "oversharing " that can get us in trouble. If you have
issues that you feel you need to talk about in private try and find someone you can trust and who cares. I feel for you.
Im glad you found this forum and was able to share what you did. Take care.....