He is gaslighting me about what I found in his phone. He is trying to claim that I am making it into something it is not - unbelievable. I read his friend's message with my own two eyes and took screenshots of their messages. His friend point blank said "I wish she would just admit to her issues and work on them with you" as well as "you deserve far better than how you've been treated in a crisis. It's not Ok what she says to you".

I love how I'm the villain, and he's the victim. Classic narcissistic abuse maneuver.