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Old Oct 12, 2022, 10:54 AM
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Yeah, you're both correct @divine1966 and @ArtleyWilkins... thank you. I needed to hear these things. I do have a tendency within me that needs to be right and win over an abuser. But it's a losing battle, and the way I know I truly win is by walking away and by disengaging from the arguments, from the toxicity of it all and from any battles.
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