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Originally Posted by DoroMona
Sounds like you need to get out of this marriage ASAP. Have you asked yourself why you're actually hesitating? Could it be that you're simply intimidated by the actual process? Maybe you will feel better about it if you talk to a divorce lawyer and educate yourself about what you need to do. Don't look at divorce as a gigantic thing, but as a series of smaller steps, and go from there.
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I've asked myself why. I've been trying to emotionally detach more and more so it hurts less. She's been blaming her drinking on me for this. AT first it was me trying to "detach with love" alal AlAnon (don't go to meetings though I"ve been toying with it).
The biggest problem is everything we have, is in MY name. Possibly even her car which I had to buy for her because she kept hesitating on doing it despite whining she needed a car for work as her "doctor is signing off on her going back to work soon" - that was in the summer when she was better behaved. So I'm leaving things that are MY RESPONSIBILITY in HER HANDS.
This is messy.
If we got a divorce, ideally, she'd keep her car, and most of her stuff, and I'd just start over. I can't move either, I have too good of a job right now.