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Old Oct 13, 2022, 07:09 PM
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Originally Posted by MuseumGhost View Post
Thanks, Fuzzy, for your kind validation.

I'd like to add that continuing to educate myself about the compulsive liars in my life (as I am able, and in the right place to do so), I have found a certain amount of peace as well.

I can't change the past. However, I can change myself, and my responses to the wrongs that were done, slowly---and with the realization that I am worth safeguarding. My psyche is worth protecting. I am 180 degrees from the ways they attempted to portray me to others, and the way they tried to convince me that I was.

And Lord help them if they ever cross my path again. Because now, if they try their little head-trip nonsense, they will be quite surprised at how I've bounced back. And at how much stronger I am now, so much more than ever before.

I understand myself and know myself so much better than I used to. I've regained strengths I didn't know I possessed. And by simply surviving, I've overcome a thousand other obstacles they will never know about, never guess at. It will be MY turn to see the confused looks on their faces...it will be MY chance to watch them crumble from within.

Excellent Biblical quotes about dealing with liars (very validating): 25 Bible Verses About Dealing With A Liar (ESV) - RANKED
I didn’t know she also lied about you. Did she belittle you?
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