Thank you all for your kind words and concern. He has apologized profusely to me and my boys. That does not change the fact that we are still divorcing and not getting back together. We both have agreed that he will always have these problems, especially if he doesn't get into different types of therapy related to his illnesses and brain trauma. He works so much right now he is not allowing himself time for therapy again like he did before. I will continue to go to therapy until it is not needed. So far it has been very helpful to me for the past year.
I also agree about the shifting blame thing, I saw that a lot. When he brings it up again I really just need to tell him to to discuss it any further. There is no point anymore. Nothing left to resolve. Thank you all again. It is nice to have others listen.