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Originally Posted by Omers
I'm sorry, that sucks. I had a hard time the one time I saw awesome T's wife at the office (I couldn't go in until I knew she had left the parking lot). T was very upfront about it being his wife and was OK listening to my discomfort. I am sorry that L could not offer that to you. I know there are risks to self-disclosure but you had already seen him being coy certainly is not going to help things.
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Thank you Omers. L did let me vent/cry in session about seeing him. I just didn't catch that I was upset about her not being upfront with me.
The thing is that L does do a lot of disclosures. However, if I ask a question, we process it first. If she wants to offer a disclosure, she asks me first.
L knew that I didn't want to see him. I told her last year that one day I want to see her wedding pictures, but that I wasn't ready to. I definitely wasn't prepared to see him in person!