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Originally Posted by InkyBooky
I'm sorry you feel betrayed, but maybe it will help if you frame it as "my T is a good person who tries to protect the people she cares about" rather than framing it as a "lie" with some sort of intent to deceive on her part.
In this instance she was simply caught between trying to protect her husband (his privacy) and trying to protect your feelings as well. Sure, maybe she stumbled a little because she was caught off guard, but ultimately it sounds like her intention was to protect.
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I can understand your point. She didn't lie to intentionally hurt me. But what I think you're missing is the "honesty first" part. We have agreed to always be honest first, even if honesty hurts. Because we have a strong relationship and can work through it. So if she was trying to protect me, it goes against our agreement still.