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Old Oct 14, 2022, 04:53 PM
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Originally Posted by Rive. View Post
She should have been honest with you. In my book, not wanting to upset you, is not reason enough. Honesty and truth are more important.

Yes, her husband is perfectly entitled to be there but her trying to manage you/your feelings as if you were a little kid is disrespectful and invalidating. She messed up.
Thank you. Yes, honesty and truth are more important than sparring me my feelings. Especially because I already knew it was him...or at least was pretty certain. I had been crying my eyes out already for like 30mins over it being him before she finally admitted it.
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