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Old Oct 15, 2022, 10:32 AM
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Yes, yes and yes, Discom. This fear of failing comes from lack of self-esteem and we need to break this barrier. You said something that makes a lot of sense to me. We are compassionate with other people. Why not with ourselves.
That is why one of the most effective ways to break these fears is by letting ourselves making errors, daring to do things no matter what unexpected obstacles we may find. We think beforehand that we won’t be able to face to these setbacks but it’s not true. We have more resilience than we think. It’s only our minds who plays bad games with us. And I noticed by doing so, that the more I dare with things, the more my self-esteem gets stronger. And this has become a non stop way.

Are you also experiencing the same? Do you feel your self-esteem stronger now? If so, I celebrate it immensely because I know how important it is.
Truly, I saw myself so tiny, insignificant…I don’t even have words to explain how I felt.
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