You are very sweet and kind. I do choose not to act on them. It's my one redeeming quality. Whether or not it is enough, I tend to think is for people to judge after I no longer am a part of this world. For what it's worth, I thing those "good" people who treated you badly, are to blame for treating you badly. We are all responsible for our actions. Espacially when children are affected, it is the adults duty to realize the effect their behaviour has on them. Their naivity etc does not absolve them of breaking that duty.