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Old Oct 18, 2022, 08:42 PM
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Originally Posted by BeyondtheRainbow View Post
I'm so sorry about your sister. Dementia is always a terrible thing to watch happen to a loved one.

Something you can do that can help a little is to make a memory book. It can be as simple as a little photo album with a one-two sentence statement about her life on each page ("I like baseball. My favorite team is the Giants") ("I worked in a library") etc. Or you can go fancier and use a photo album or scrap booking album and include pictures with labels on all faces, meaningful mementos (Like a program from a wedding) and just kind of make "the story of Sister's Life). I used to do these with my patients with dementia and they usually loved them. One woman with more advanced dementia lost hers and they had to search her whole room because she really missed going through it every day. It was the first thing she'd enjoyed in years. It won't stop the dementia; it just reminds her of important things in her life.

I hope that she has a slow progression and that you are able to spend time with her. It's good she has people who love her.

Rainbow, what a magnificent idea the memory book is! I know that my sister would be so attached to her memory book. And there would be a whole lot to put in there, since she has a big family. Thank you very much for sharing such a special "tool." I'm going to share the idea with my niece, I know she'll be very enthusiastic about creating a memory book for her mom.

My sister does have many people who love her and are/will be of support to her. Her children & grandchildren (and a great-grandson, born this month!) are all local. Only my niece is in San Francisco (near my son), but it's not as though that is far off. Also, my niece is an acupuncturist, so she gives my sis treatments to help boost her immune system and things like that, which is so important.

Anyway -
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