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SnappingRope
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Default Oct 19, 2022 at 11:18 AM
 
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Originally Posted by AliceKate View Post
I cannot fix what I helped break so many years ago. T says I should try and forgive my younger self, but it's a continuum between her and me. We are the same person, basically. How can I forgive her when I am her? How, when her mistakes were my mistakes and her bad traits are mine?

To hold yourself eternally accountable to your past is to bind yourself eternally to a restricted future - you cannot delve the depths of life while hang-ups hold you back. Let go and bloom into a person whose freedom from guilt allows them to embrace the moment in a full body hug.


Guilt serves a purpose - to help make you a better person. Once that lesson is learned, guilt is no longer necessary. Let it go.
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Thanks for this!
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