Friendships/relationships are often a complex journey. What I've learn through the years is that I can't apply the same rules of engagement to everyone I deem a friend. Sometimes people are good for some things that you do or hobbies you might share interests in. But they may not be the best people for more personal discussions (and that can be for a variety of reasons). Then there are others that fit that mode of being good for in-depth conversations, but they may not be big socializers, which means their capacity has its limits as well. So, for myself, I have friends that come in varying degrees of approachability that I seek out at different times, but not all the time. Maybe you just need to determine what you want most right now and gauge prospects from that perspective.