Im afraid i disagree about the emergency notification. The daughter wasnt going to a regular dr appt, she was going to the ER. T could have been notified by phone and needed to leave immediately. So i really dont think cutting the session short was a function of zoom.

And re having your cake and eating it too. How can you rejoice at having a t who does home visits and at the same time condemn or question her for her loose boundaries?

This reminds me of my home situation. On the one hand, my parents gave me a lot of freedom, while simultaneously being overstrict. I found this frustrating. It was like, either trust me or dont. But they were not trustworthy. Are her actions reminding you of your own parents? Like my dad would agree with me, but not in front of my mother! That did NOT help. So im thinking, your frustration with t echoes your frustration with your parents. Youre caught in a bind. (After reading moo's post) How to break out?