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Hopefully you can wotk with a Therapist to determine what "your" common denominator behavior is & change what is not working.
I back out if plans when I need to & none of my friends have a problem with that. Your backing out may just be their excuse for something else that is bothering them that would be much harder for them to bring up.
I have had a few nice friends that I have left. One was because of the passive aggressive way she communicated & I just got tired of dealing with it. I am busy with my farm & caring for horses & my fur babies so I really don't have time to deal with someone who complicates life at an emotional level. Just me, but it might be something to look at within yourself as to how you interface with people at a personal level. Analyzing ourself & our own behaviors is a good thing & making changes where necessary.
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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