I have learned about setting boundaries in therapy and on my own through self study. I come from a childhood of abuse and neglect so I feel you there. I am also a recovering codependent and people pleaser. It’s been critical for me to set boundaries in order to heal. It’s difficult but doable. Are you in therapy now? If not there are some excellent books on setting boundaries.

I agree about the support groups.

Fuzzy, I think you are terrific as is.