I get it, as that's one of my biggest fears, too. With the thing where Dr. T said my check-in texts (on whether we were meeting in person) had become irritating, he told me he put it as gently as felt possible to me. So he was a bit confused as to why I was so upset. And I said he could be as gentle as a baby lamb, that it didn't matter--it was the thought of bothering someone or being a burden that was the issue.