Relationships are most definitely a challenge. People tend to make things back and white when it’s not that simple. There is an increase on determining the other person must be a narcissist when instead they may be wired in such a way that they simply don’t see things or as in the article mirror properly.

I had to learn about this because my husband is very ADHD and tends to lack in patience and ability to sit and listen and see my POV on things. I have to remind myself that he is not going to have the patience I wish he had and he can have a quick temper.

A lot of people like to claim abuse, when instead there are times when a person is just wired a certain way and you can’t expect them to be more than they are.