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Originally Posted by Have Hope
That's not quite what will do it for me, but thanks for the suggestions! I like NARC since it will be a constant reminder to me, especially when he's being super nice, that it's all a lie and a manipulation.
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I think this is helpful - you are right it will be right in your face every time he texts you, whether he's trying to be smoochy and rainbows or whether he's turned the tables.
I know there's no official "diagnosis" but frankly from all I've read I'd be shocked if he
wasn't one. I think it's a true personality disorder and as we all know, not curable, can only be made barely tolerable even if the person puts in a huge amount of work to overcome it (in the past he's done enough to keep you off his back)