I told him yesterday with regards to his sick mother that I am no longer "that person" for him. Well, she died last night. I called him this morning to express my condolences, and I all I got was his hostility. WOW. Just WOW.

He's hostile because I don't want to be with him and told him I cannot be his support through his mother's passing, and all because he has mistreated me, and HE'S hostile towards ME.

Unbelievable.

I can never be enough for him.... never. And I can never do anything right in his mind. I am a bad person for leaving him during his time of need, in his perspective. How dare I do that?

Of course, as usual, it's all about HIM, what HE wants and what HE needs - how I feel does NOT matter to him at all.