I don't know if it's "normal" but I have that same fear. In fact, I just left a message with T about it yesterday - being scared I was going to be abandoned because we were too close.

Have you been abandoned/rejected in the past? I have. And I'm hoping to unlearn that fear in T....but I know it will take time.

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