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Old Oct 23, 2022, 03:02 PM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
You most certainly are and have been too nice with him and other men. But it’s not much you could do about it right this point, maybe just pack his boxes and put them outside. But again it might not be worth the hassle. Won’t make a difference except maybe you won’t have to listen to him but again he might go on and on about why boxes are outside

I just hope you stop being too nice with men in general starting today.
I am working on finding my protective self that will help me to create stronger & healthier boundaries with all people, but especially with men. I want and need to protect my energy better.

I don't think it's worth the hassle to box up his stuff. Many things are breakables and need to be individually bubble wrapped and carefully so that they don't break. I don't want that responsibility and it's too much work. He can do it himself. It's his things.
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