This is so nonsensical. So you are pretty terrible according to him. Don’t help him with mom dying, don’t acknowledge what good things you two had, you drink and now therapist shared something bad. Well normal reaction to your announcement of divorce would be “what a good idea. Let’s get it over with”.

Instead he went on how much he loves you and how great things are and don’t leave me.

All at the same time saying how horrible you are. So you are either wonderful and he’s upset to lose you or you are terrible and he should be glad you left.

He makes no sense. Which one is it???