I couldn't believe it. He told me I was "creating false memories" and that none of what I said ever happened. He said I was "evil" and "full of hate" towards them (him and my mother). He said I was praying to the "wrong God" and nowhere in the Bible could I find justification for what I was doing to them.

Basically it was a 15 minute conversation of him saying "It's not true" and me saying "Yes it is". Finally I told him I was done and hung up on him.

At one point he said "if he did ever call me a ***** so what?" I told him that it affected me for the rest of my life and how could he say "so what?"

So surreal.

This man beat me with a leather belt for asking to spend the night with a friend. He told me no and I started crying and he started beating me. He accused me of being PREGNANT when I was home sick from school - I was 11. He began calling me "*****" and "jezebel" all the time when I was 11 years old up until I was a teenager. He was verbally abusive to our whole family. Still is to my mother.

She has always taken his side. She has always denied any of what I have said ever happened. Now I heard it from him. I still am so surprised. I guess I expected him to apologize for it. Right.

Anybody else been through this?