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Old Oct 25, 2022, 11:44 AM
Bill3 Bill3 is offline
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I was so upset after Sunday's interactions with him that I barely slept a wink Sunday night.
How might you fend him off so as to avoid all interactions with him?

My take on why he is both loving and abusive: He is loving in a manipulative way, he hopes to get you back. But even so he can't hold back his narcissism--he can't tolerate anything that questions/challenges his ego--and so he is compelled to defend and attack when that ego feels threatened.
Thanks for this!
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