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Oct 25, 2022, 12:35 PM
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Member Since: Dec 2017
Location: Eastern, USA
Posts: 9,762
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Rive.
Just to clarify, I was talking about the therapist's response to your email about him/T sharing his "observations" with your husband. T shouldn't share anything when you are not present.
I was commenting on T's statement to you, not whatever your husband claimed was shared (or not) by the therapist.
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Oh ok. Here is my T's text to me verbatim (copied and pasted here):
Texting used for scheduling and quick messages, not for discussions. As I said, I can be available if needed for you to continue. Otherwise, I assure you anything discussed separately would not exceed the pertinence of what happened in any of the couples sessions.
And here was my reply:
I appreciate that, but you are not aware of the fact that X is an abusive narcissist. He was able to charm you, and make you think that I am misinterpreting him and that I am to blame for all the issues in our relationship. I never felt validated by you in my experience of the abuse , which is why I quit therapy. Thank you.
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