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Old Oct 25, 2022, 12:35 PM
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Originally Posted by Rive. View Post
Just to clarify, I was talking about the therapist's response to your email about him/T sharing his "observations" with your husband. T shouldn't share anything when you are not present.

I was commenting on T's statement to you, not whatever your husband claimed was shared (or not) by the therapist.
Oh ok. Here is my T's text to me verbatim (copied and pasted here):

Texting used for scheduling and quick messages, not for discussions. As I said, I can be available if needed for you to continue. Otherwise, I assure you anything discussed separately would not exceed the pertinence of what happened in any of the couples sessions.

And here was my reply:

I appreciate that, but you are not aware of the fact that X is an abusive narcissist. He was able to charm you, and make you think that I am misinterpreting him and that I am to blame for all the issues in our relationship. I never felt validated by you in my experience of the abuse , which is why I quit therapy. Thank you.
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