What I have learned recently is that toxic/narcissistic individuals are in constant need of validation. Their ego is in constant need to be fed so they often actually are drawn to or create drama in order to feel relevant. They like to create drama where they can become the center of attention. They develop their skills differently from a young age where they slowly learn techniques to stand out. They often get very good at drawing people into their poor me drama.
So in effect, they weaponize “in need of validation” as a tool for manipulation.
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