I'm wondering how long you've known this person for? I'm sorry you're in this situation. Maybe if you give a bit more information more people might reply. Have you tried posting in the ''relationships'' forum here?

''too much or too little consideration or respect''....? (I'm unsure if I fully understand this..)

I'm wondering if you have been diagnosed with any disorder? Are you in therapy?

(sorry ''too many questions'' here...)

I'm sending positive vibes, hoping things improve for you!