And WOW - is he BRAZEN.

He just showed up at my apartment, at 7:30 AM, when I have to shower and get ready for work. He showed up without any prior warning and without an invitation. The way we left it yesterday, he was to come back here on Monday to get the rest of his things & the cats, after the funeral.

Then I get a text from him this morning telling me he is outside and wants to come in to pack up more things. I said NO.

What a piece of work! What the hell is that????? More controlling behavior?
throws me
He shows NO respect... he could have messaged me beforehand, ASKING if he could stop in this morning. But NO, instead, he just shows up, all entitled to doing so, and showing absolutely ZERO regard for my personal space.

Just WOW. I know I should not be surprised, but his behavior constantly throws me for a loop.