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DBT (interpersonal effectiveness section) & a wonderful therapist truly helped me learn. Learn when to walk away from some people. Not everyone is meant to be our friend & we need to sense that BEFORE we invest ourselves in trying to force something to become a REAL friendship.
I have learned to keep people I first meet at acquaintance level. Then slowly get to know them without trying to force anything. Sometimes the more I get to know someone, the more I determine just how incompatible I am with them & the acquaintance just slowly fades away.
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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