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Old Oct 28, 2022, 04:54 PM
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Originally Posted by willowtigger View Post
this ^

i speak from experience, abusers just want the abusee (if thats a word) to follow everything they decide they want, turning the abusee (the one being abused) into a people pleaser.

Due to three people from my past, I think thats why I fall over myself to please others, even when it's bad for my mental health to do so
I understand. And yes, that’s what happens in the abusive dynamic.
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