On one of my narc abuse forums, women talk about the "narcissist discard" as soon as new narcissistic supply is secured. He is crying and pleading to me now, but I am sure he is on the lookout for new supply to replace me as soon as possible. Then, the cold discard will come and he will turn his back on me and will go completely silent. I wonder how I feel at that point? Relieved probably - that he is finally off my back. But maybe there will be a twinge of sadness when he turns to someone else. I usually have trouble seeing my ex's move onto a new woman, especially if it's fast. I have to remind myself at that point that I don't want him and certainly do not need him.

Any woman who catches him next or next after that, I will feel sorry for though. She will have NO clue what she's getting into. And, I am sure he will paint me as negatively as possible to the next female because of course it will have been all MY fault and my "illness" that has caused our divorce.