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Originally Posted by Have Hope
On one of my narc abuse forums, women talk about the "narcissist discard" as soon as new narcissistic supply is secured. He is crying and pleading to me now, but I am sure he is on the lookout for new supply to replace me as soon as possible. Then, the cold discard will come and he will turn his back on me and will go completely silent. I wonder how I feel at that point? Relieved probably - that he is finally off my back. But maybe there will be a twinge of sadness when he turns to someone else. I usually have trouble seeing my ex's move onto a new woman, especially if it's fast. I have to remind myself at that point that I don't want him and certainly do not need him.
Any woman who catches him next or next after that, I will feel sorry for though. She will have NO clue what she's getting into. And, I am sure he will paint me as negatively as possible to the next female because of course it will have been all MY fault and my "illness" that has caused our divorce.
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Of course. Same way he portrayed his ex wife. Like a monster. It will be the same with you. No doubt
It might happen fast for him but not because of him not caring about you or him finding love etc We all know he cannot manage on his own due to bad spending habits, addiction and bad credit history. He’ll need a second income/apartment co-signer/car co-signer ASAP. He’ll be on a lookout in no time. Future victim might have no clue or maybe she’ll see red flags fast. Like you hopefully are more aware now and will see red flags in men faster.
Right now I am sure he doesn’t believe you two will be ever done because he’s that skilled in manipulation. He’s going to amp the game. He’s already crying, supposedly having troubles at work and showing up without warnings. Be prepared.