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Old Oct 29, 2022, 07:07 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
Of course. Same way he portrayed his ex wife. Like a monster. It will be the same with you. No doubt

It might happen fast for him but not because of him not caring about you or him finding love etc We all know he cannot manage on his own due to bad spending habits, addiction and bad credit history. He’ll need a second income/apartment co-signer/car co-signer ASAP. He’ll be on a lookout in no time. Future victim might have no clue or maybe she’ll see red flags fast. Like you hopefully are more aware now and will see red flags in men faster.

Right now I am sure he doesn’t believe you two will be ever done because he’s that skilled in manipulation. He’s going to amp the game. He’s already crying, supposedly having troubles at work and showing up without warnings. Be prepared.
I am prepared for the fight of my life. I know he will continue to try to convince me not to divorce and give him another chance. And that he will continue crying to me, while also looking for someone else.

I know how needy he is and how badly he wants someone to take care of him.

I am definitely far more aware of red flags than I've ever been. I have ZERO interest in men right now.
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