So, I did get more hostility from him today when he came over to get the cats. He's upset that I did not text him during his mother's funeral or at all yesterday for the funeral. I had sent flowers instead, and he claims he never saw them. Great.

I told him he has no respect for what I want and need and that I am protecting my mental health. So he turned right around and said the same things to me - that I have no respect for his wishes or needs! What total BS! I hate him! I am now in a foul mood and it's ruined my whole day.