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Old Nov 01, 2022, 09:44 PM
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Originally Posted by Soupe du jour View Post
Today was a "Good grief!" kind of day. My SIL set me up with her hair stylist in a village near where she lives (and near where I'll live in the near future). Since the stylist only speaks Czech, SIL went with me. I made a big color jump back to an auburn type shade. I only really wanted a trim, but in the end was a bit of chaos. She did NOT know how to deal with my kind of hair. I have an extreme mop of curly thick hair. She said she needed to first dry my hair straight before cutting it. Heard of that, but never had it done. I told SIL to tell her "Good luck!" As she tried, a mass of frizzy madness formed. I'm assuming she panicked, so she suggested a tactic no other hairstylist has ever suggested. She shaved off my hair about 4 or inches from the back portion (above my neck) to lighten the mass. You know, when you see people's hair in a ponytail to see the bottom half shaved off? I don't think that's that bad, in some cases, but wasn't the right thing for me, in the end. Also, she cut the bottom in varying lengths, as if a kid did it.
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I've got wildly curly hair too and I hate haircuts. I've tried asking for the person who was best with curly hair and had them act insulted and tell me that they are all equally good. I don't buy that.

The worst I ever had was a woman who refused to wash and condition my hair before trying to run a comb through it. And this was a regular comb, not a curly hair comb (I'm blanking on the name). She was pretty much pulling my hair out and even other people were commenting. So she huffed and took me back to the sink for the conditioner I'd asked for.

In college I heard of someone cutting hair for $7 or something. I went to her and wound up with scallops across the back. I had to have a friend chop off another 2 inches.


I love my hair but really hate maintaining it.
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