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Old Nov 02, 2022, 04:17 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
Stay very far away from the so called old friend. He’s not after friendship whatsoever and he knows you are vulnerable. Sadly when people go through divorce or widowhood, there are always people come from out of no where preying on vulnerable, both men and women. not surprised he latched on to you when you are weak. Would he be pushing friendship if you were still married. Bet you not. So this isn’t friendship. This is very bad news. I’d not continue with this “friendship” because it will end bad. That’s how it started with your husband. “He’s just a friend helping me through break up.”. Ended badly.

Nope. Block this dude
Thanks, divine. I'm keeping strong boundaries with him. I won't block him since he's basically harmless to me, but he is trying to swoop in and "save" me, which I don't need. Plus, I have to see him socially every week where I go to hear music. I want to be friends with him, but at a distance.
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