People who have back pains hire movers or ask friends to help. Where are they when he needs help?

He tells you sob stories because you listen. Don’t listen. He’s a grown man. He needs to take care of his life like the rest of us. Leave of absence? Ok now. Unless he can get FMLA paid fully or partially he isn’t taking leave of absence. Not with his partying life style. He can’t pay bills as it is. I call BS