Yep, and I agree with you. I open up to people very easily, I do want to believe the best in all people I meet, but many just don't cut the mustard.
The problem really is that I hang out in very much of a hippie crowd, because I am a hippie myself. And hippies in general are very open minded, love-oriented people - share & spread the love is the motto. So, the culture encourages this within me, yet I've also met some serious flakes in this crowd and people who are not of strong character or druggies or people who are of low class. I think this couple is pretty low class. When I say that, I am not being snobby or thinking I am better than them - it's more that their actions were low class in my opinion.
I won't stop being who I am, but I will take my time to get to know people better. I am definitely not making any more plans with this couple.
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