I can feel the pain you feel as I read your words. I was married for 11 years and it took 2 or 3 years to fully get over the hope that I had for so long, that I eventually lost. It is a very painful moment when you want to go back and fix something, only to realize that there is nothing left to fix…

Hang in there. Take comfort in the fact that there is a huge opportunity for growth here, though I am sure you in all likelihood don’t feel that right now. Whenever a door closes, there is virtually always a little window that opens, if only we look hard enough…