AND, I had totally forgotten this fact: in one of our recent fights that had led up to the second separation, he had threatened to call the police on me! He provoked me to anger, I reacted and raised my voice at him, so he told me HE felt threatened by ME and that he was going to call the police!!!! Yeah, I call total BS! I am a 5'2" petite woman, I did not go near him and I did not threaten to hit him, nor did I even come close to hitting him. I had simply just raised my voice out of anger and frustration at him for provoking me.

This is once again, him flipping things around so that he's the victim and I'm the villain.

Remembering this fact certainly cures me instantly of wanting to hear from him.

I am attending a narc abuse support group for the 1st time tomorrow eve - I am looking forward to it - it;'s for those who are leaving a narcissist.