Oh, and P.S.: That line he shot at you about, "not being able to control himself" when he is emotional or turns angry...Those words are VERBATIM what my own sister said when she let her mask slip for two seconds (and very close to the hints that two other personal narcs dropped) when they were simultaneously hating on me, and yet attempting to terrify me into not leaving.

It's one of the dead giveaways. THEY have to do the discarding, NOT you! It's so pathological, it makes my head hurt!

Please, stay cool headed, and keep your wits about you.