Toxic/abusive/disordered narcissistic individuals like to manipulate others emotionally. They see this causing emotional pain as empowering. They need to stand out and cannot thrive without others they can manipulate and feed off of. They thrive on drama and can act kind yet are not authentically kind and caring.

I have learned much about this toxic type. They have patterns and often claim to possess special powers. They live in their own world/reality and use, use, and act always needing to stand out. They are jealous and controlling and can have terrible tantrums if they feel threatened. Yet in reality they have low self esteem and are weak.

They pretend to mourn and care but they don’t, their interest is in having power and control. If your parents die and you need genuine comfort you get very little and what you do get if anything is a big inconvenience. It’s inconvenient to give up any power and a toxic person always needs validation and attention. You are only a guest in their world and if they don’t get what they want, they discard all the while playing the victim.

I do not care to let a toxic individual pull me into the corrupt mentality they want. Then they win. They don’t change either so it’s best to distance. They can get very good at getting others to follow and pitty them. It’s all part of their attempt to have some kind of relevance.

They get pretty good at using and word petting as they use but it’s fake.