I think in this situation it sounds like you’re asking for clarification, rather than bringing something up that might cause an issue. I’ve been in that boat, and I straight up said you’ve said X and you’ve said y. Which is it, because you’re sending mixed messages and I’m confused. I’m lucky that I have a strong therapeutic alliance with my T, and she’s pretty good at owning her stuff when it affects me (and is true). If you’re not sure about the relationship, this might be a good way to challenge yourself to advocate for yourself and see if she’s worth it.