I, too, wonder what fire dreams are about. I've never had one, but my daughter began having terrors about fire when she was 3 years old. I very much doubt it was about sex, unless I take into account that every one of us is born as a sexual being. My daughter's awful fear of fire continued into her childhood. At the same time she developed an absolute fascination with Japan. The language, the food, the entire Japanese culture. There was nothing in our family that was connected with Japan. My husband and I considered that perhaps she had, in a previous life, been in Nagasaki or Hiroshima when the atom bombs were dropped and caused fire.