I second finding a therapist for yourself and the kids if they want one. There’s not much you can do to help someone who refuses help. You can however talk to someone about what you can do for yourself and how to move forward.
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Nammu
…Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. …...
Desiderata Max Ehrmann
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