I've been with my SO for over 40 years. It's been a tumult relationship. Marriage , divorce, breakups, etc...... When we were younger we made love almost all the time. Now after some physical issues she won't even touch me. This is driving's me insane because I don't like to self please anymore. Porn doesn't turn me on anymore and I have no intention of cheating.
But she will not cooperate with me. She's had a few medical issues that have reduced her hormone level to 0. She says she won't interact with me because it would remind her of what she's missing. Isn't that kind of selfish ? I do everything I can to make her happy in other ways. Why can't she just try and please me out of love for me ? I tried to make this as short as possible.
Bottom line is that I'm become very frustrated and depressed.
I'm looking for a new therapists as usual and she's not interested and therapy since I'm the one with the problem.
I'm so tired of this. My self esteem is rock bottom.