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This is emotional blackmail, which is trying to cause emotional pain if you don't do what he wants. Grey rocking and referral to doctor/therapist is a good plan.
If he says he is in imminent danger of hurting himself or others, such as saying that right now he has a plan and the means and he is going to attempt, you could call the police.
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Exactly what Bill3 said. He wants to continue renting that space in your head that he's never paid for. He wants to stir you to act, somehow.
Emotional blackmail is never okay. It is more manipulation, and pretty cruel and thoughtless, considering he knows very well what has happened in your life.
Keep a journal of this stuff! Times and dates.
Threaten legal action if he breaks the 'no contact' again. Watch him snap-to real fast.