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Old Nov 10, 2022, 05:50 PM
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Originally Posted by MuseumGhost View Post
Exactly what Bill3 said. He wants to continue renting that space in your head that he's never paid for. He wants to stir you to act, somehow.

Emotional blackmail is never okay. It is more manipulation, and pretty cruel and thoughtless, considering he knows very well what has happened in your life.

Keep a journal of this stuff! Times and dates.

Threaten legal action if he breaks the 'no contact' again. Watch him snap-to real fast.
Yep - I am glad I grey rocked him and glad I didn't feed into his sob story and drama. I know he's just crying wolf and is trying hard to rope me back in by feeling sorry for him and engaging more & more with him. Forget that. I am not biting this time around.
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